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I Didn't Spiral. Here's How...
I Didn't Spiral. Here's How...
I see my growth in real time every single day, and that is what I am most proud of. It's easy to feel stable when life is smooth. But there's... Read more...
If It's Not a F*ck Yes ...
If It's Not a F*ck Yes ...
Flow doesn't happen when we're in a hurry. Alignment doesn't happen when we want what we want yesterday. The magic is often in the slowdown. Read more...
Sometimes Boats Need to Be Rocked
Sometimes Boats Need to Be Rocked
I've rehearsed a boundary in my head ten times before finally saying it out loud. I've typed a text and deleted it five times because I didn't want to “cause... Read more...
Let's Talk About the Big V
Let's Talk About the Big V
That's the thing about vulnerability we don't talk about enough:   It isn't weakness. It's willingness.   Willingness to be seen.Willingness to risk connection.Willingness to stay open… without abandoning yourself... Read more...
I'm So Grateful I Didn't Get What I Wanted
I'm So Grateful I Didn't Get What I Wanted
The right people choose you - consistently.The wrong people leave - repeatedly. And what I see now, looking back objectively, is that what felt like rejection… was protection.   Every... Read more...
The Phases of Becoming
The Phases of Becoming
I've spent over a year now digging deep into my relationship with myself. Revisiting my past. Looking at where I self-abandoned. But instead of getting stuck there, I've been able to separate the lessons... Read more...
The Trauma Loop (And How to Break It)
The Trauma Loop (And How to Break It)
Most of us don't realize we're living inside a trauma loop. I'd been living in one my entire life.   It doesn't always look dramatic. It often looks like being “loyal.” Like... Read more...
I Bombed Big Time - Or Did I?
I Bombed Big Time - Or Did I?
There was a moment where I went blank. I tripped up my words. Moments where I had to pause, take a breath, and recover. I didn't say half the things... Read more...
Why Playing Small Costs Everything
Why Playing Small Costs Everything
We stop asking for what we want.We quiet our needs to stay connected.We fear abandonment more than we fear betraying ourselves.We seek validation instead of truth.   This is how self-abandonment... Read more...
The Hard Truth About Growth
The Hard Truth About Growth
Not everyone is going to support your growth or boundaries - especially the people who benefited from you not having any. That part isn't talked about enough. So here we are, and I've been... Read more...
The Year I Stop Giving a Shit
The Year I Stop Giving a Shit
This year is about moving toward a version of myself that I trust.One that listens inward before reacting outward.One that honors rest as much as action.One that doesn't rush clarity - but allows it to arrive. Read more...
This Is What the Shift Feels Like
This Is What the Shift Feels Like
This time last year, I was hungover on three hours of sleep, up all night alone after spending the evening with my ex, playing my bass and sipping tequila. Funny - I... Read more...